Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Do you know how to defend yourself?




             Do you know how to defend yourself? For most people the answer is, unfortunately, no. For some the answer is yes but this a false sense of confidence, which can sometimes just make a bad situation worse. Does anybody really "know" how to defend themselves you ask... Yes. Can anyone learn to defend themselves? Sure... With the proper mindset, an individual can be more prepared for a self-defense situation even without years of in-depth training.
             Simple concepts like being aware of ones surroundings can be a huge contributing factor when it comes to avoiding bad situation. What about when you can't avoid having to physically defend yourself? Remember the concept "Flight or flight". If a situation is life threatening, then you must have it in your mind that you will do whatever you must to survive. There are no rules like "no hitting below the belt or no biting" in self-defense. Claw, bite, gouge... anything that you can do to get yourself out of that situation where your life might be threatened. Theses are things that you already know how to do, but are you willing to do it or will you freeze. That's what I'm talking about when I say "it's a mindset".
              I've been training in martial arts for 23 years, and I've been teaching Tae Kwon Do for almost 11 years now. In that time I've cultivated a mature understanding of self defense, and I've taught many. The most common misunderstanding is that you should know some fancy moves, and sure knowing proper technique will greaten your chances but isn't completely necessary. But knowing how to jam ones thumbs into an eye socket isn't exactly rocket science, you've just got to think quickly and logically about how you can put an attacker out of commision.

2 comments:

  1. I imagine that one is capable of learning anything with enough time and effort put into what it is they want to accomplish. When it comes to defending oneself I would say always lean towards the side that takes less force and diffuse any abrupt situation as graceful as possible. That or just raise your arms and scream franticly

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  2. I took a KRAV MAGA traning few years ago and did enjoy it and I would like to go back to do the trainning in the future since I could not finished it. I did learned how to disarm someone while sitting in the drivers seat. I Learn lot of good tricks and lost weight. I am thinking to go back in the future, but this time I want to introduce my daughter to self defense. Do you train children?

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